jiggerman41
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wives or steelhead
another steelhead season is upon us and i have a question.everytime i tell my wife that i am going to erie to go fishing she gets an attitude and says that i am choosing steelhead over her.its to the point now that i get the silent treatment when she thinks that i am going to erie.does anyone else have this problem?if so what do you do to get out?
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:27:08
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A day of honey-dos equals a day of fishing? Send flowers? Send a process server?
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:31:26
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Just make her feel special and you will be good to go that works for me
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:39:46
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Why not take her with you? After she lands her first steel I think she will be hooked.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:49:06
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Or, you could say something like: "Gee, I'm sorry my fishing upsets you. Maybe my next wife will appreciate me more."
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:51:39
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My wife said to tell her to get over it.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 17:52:03
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Great question!! Been married for 30 years and she pulled that on me for probably the first 5. Then she learned it just didn't work. Now she looks forward to me going and can't wait till I leave!!!
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RE: wives or steelhead
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:14:18
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I don't even have to click that link to know what it is
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:23:13
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Next time she does that, knock her on her**** bet she wont ever do it again ,LOL
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RE: wives or steelhead
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:30:48
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ORIGINAL: jiggerman41 another steelhead season is upon us and i have a question.everytime i tell my wife that i am going to erie to go fishing she gets an attitude and says that i am choosing steelhead over her.its to the point now that i get the silent treatment when she thinks that i am going to erie.does anyone else have this problem?if so what do you do to get out? You are lucky you are getting the silent treatment, at least you dont have to hear her mouth anymore. What should you do to get out? Is take the jewels out of her purse and put the keys in the truck and go fishing.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:32:37
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Instead of TELLING her you are going, it might help if you take most of the other advice given here (cleaning the house, cooking dinner, taking her out on dates) and make it a regular part of your life, and then ASK her if it's OK with her if you take a day to go fishing. Betchya if she's not a total witch, she'll give you the green light 95% of the time. Works for me.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:39:18
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hahah whatttttttttttt why should it be such a dilema to heaven forbid go out for a day or hell even a weekend. Sounds like there's deeper issues than just fishing
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:43:44
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does she not have any hobbies? interests that don't involve you? that's what I do if my hubby goes fishing without me.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:45:43
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seriously. if my husband all of a sudden started cleaning the house I'd think something far worse than a fishing trip was up his sleeve. but, I've never given him any **** about doing whatever he wanted to do, even if there was a strip club involved
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:48:08
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ORIGINAL: FisherChic even if there was a strip club involved Now you're just showin off
post edited by pxatim - 2009/09/30 18:49:36
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:49:45
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ORIGINAL: indsguiz Why not take her with you? After she lands her first steel I think she will be hooked. That's exactly what I did. My wife loves to fish anyway and when she saw the size of the fish (she was use to fishing for the stockies here) she couldn't wait to get started. After she hooked her first she was like a kid in a candy store. Now SHE plans our trips. LOL
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:54:00
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I just bought mine a new car I'm good for 4 more years!!!!
There will be days when fishing is better than ones optimistic forecast, others when it is far worse. Either is a gain over just staying home. **Roderick Haig-Brown
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 18:55:12
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let me add that i did take her to erie 1 time and she did enjoy herself but she is now going to nursing school and is too busy studying to go again.i think that the main reason is that i live 2 hrs from erie so i leave my house at 2 am fish all day then come home and go to sleep.i dont see a problem with it because it is only 3 or times a month from oct until mar.but she does.and i also want to add good 1 pghmarty
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:01:02
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I am glad my wife does not fish or hunt. She can have her hobbies and I have mine. She never really says anything about fishing or hunting.
post edited by rollcaster - 2009/09/30 19:02:29
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:07:29
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I might also add that I did the same thing with tying flies. I let her give it a try and now she ties too. More importantly, she doesn't complain too much about the money I spend on materials.
I don't give a crap if anybody listens to me or not.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:14:42
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i don't have a wife, but my girlfriend of 2 years supports me 100% in fishing and alot of the time goes with me. She asks what's wrong with me if I miss a weekend of fishing. She says my pupils are shaped like fish.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:21:34
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ORIGINAL: pxatim hahah whatttttttttttt why should it be such a dilema to heaven forbid go out for a day or hell even a weekend. Sounds like there's deeper issues than just fishing Not a dilemma at all man, just trying to be a good husband and dad 24/7/365 and not just when I want to go fishing or hunting. Guess what I'm trying to say is that it doesn't hurt to show love, affection and appreciation for your bride even when there's nothing in it for you. Like I said, I'm good to go about 95% of the time with no disagreement. And I do get to spend PLENTY of time pursuing my hobbies. I don't know about most guys, but my wife is my best friend, the love of my life, and one of the greatest gifts God has ever blessed me with. I'd never presume to TELL her that I'm going to do something fun for the day after she's worked all week and will be at home taking care of two kids (and one on the way). If you'd try it, you might find that it's a lot easier to get the green light to go, and to get the green light when you get back
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:22:37
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ORIGINAL: McFishin i don't have a wife, but my girlfriend of 2 years supports me 100% in fishing and alot of the time goes with me. She asks what's wrong with me if I miss a weekend of fishing. She says my pupils are shaped like fish. Its the title change to "wife" that makes them hate you for fishing! According to my dad at least, I am not married either
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:42:29
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Thank god I'm single LOL
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:57:29
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The wife and I celebrated 29 years of marriage on September 19th. Before we got married, she promised that she wouldn't interfere with my fishing, and she hasn't. She has no interest in fishing, but we travel to Presque Isle in the summer, and she'll go along when I fish local sometimes. For our 30th next year, we might do an Alaska trip. Our oldest son lives in Seattle, and we get out there at least once a year. She has been hinting around that I better get the to do list squared away, cause "you'll be going away every week pretty soon" She's right.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 19:59:26
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show love, affection and appreciation for your bride even when there's nothing in it for you!!!!! Is she lookin over your shoulder???????? Just kiddin,my wife is ok most of the time,But i have had license burned,and rod snapped!!!!
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 20:00:29
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nice fishmonger... wife and I are going to Alaska for 10 days next summer also... it's already known that I'll be fishing all day and she'll be doing whatever it is women do(shoppping lol) then we'll meet back up at night.
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RE: wives or steelhead
2009/09/30 20:05:42
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My wife encourages me to go....I'm "better" when I get back.
I don't always snag fish, but when I do... I choose Little Cleos I'm the best looking smartest snagging poacher alive...
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